Many guys ask me “is it bad to text a girl everyday?” and this is an important question with a somewhat complex answer. You see, whether or not you should be texting a girl everyday depends on what your relationship with her is.
If she is your girlfriend, then there is no problem with texting her everyday. However, if she is a girl that you are just casually dating or that you are trying to date then you probably should not be texting her that often.
The reason that you don’t want to text a girl that you see casually every day is that it makes it seem like you don’t have that much going on in your life. As a general rule, women are attracted to men who are active and do interesting things with there time. Whether that means partying, surfing, making money, or whatever else, women prefer dudes that make moves over dudes that just sit around.
So if you are always available for her to talk to and text chat with she will assume that you have a boring life and it will turn her off, even if this is only on a subconscious level.
Also, women are universally attracted to men who are “pre-selected” by other women. Basically what this means is that women like guys that they think other women like too.
This is a phenomenon that you will want to pay attention to because it is use the appearance of pre-selection to make yourself more attractive to women. By not always being available to text her back, you will make her assume that you are with other girls, and this will cause her attraction level to rise.
So, how often should you text a girl?
After you get a girls number you should try to stay in contact through texts about every other day to keep yourself on her radar and to keep escalating the attraction that you have started building.
Now if she is texting you everyday then it is okay top text her back daily so that she doesn’t think that you are blowing her off. But, if she never texts you first then you definitely don’t want to be texting her daily or you will seem too eager and needy and those are big texting no-nos.
Also, remember that the whole point of texting is to keep in touch so that you can meet up in real life.
So make sure that you remember to set up a date soon rather than just texting back and forth forever.
Bottom Line: Is it bad to text a girl everyday? Yes, unless she is your girlfriend…
Instead just text her back and try to get her to meet up!
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